DAY 26 – 30 days of submission

DAY 26: what are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have?

i seek a dominant that is strict, demanding and will put me in my place. i need rules, discipline and structure. i also want him to always have my best interest at heart, to mold and shape me to please him while encouraging me to grow and prosper as a willing submissive. i want to please, to be obedient, to be fully open to him. i need to be able to trust him fully, to love the person he is, to submit myself fully.

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DAY 25 – 30 days of submission

DAY 25: are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? if not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? is there a special significance to these objects or rituals?

i don’t currently have any items, objects or rituals that represent or express my submission but i wish i did. i love the idea of being collared and of having rituals and guidelines to follow — the stricter the better.

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DAY 24 – 30 days of submission

DAY 24: what are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? what feelings do they inspire?

humbleness. getting out of my own way. allowing myself to be vulnerable and true to who i am. also devotion and refocusing my attention to the one i’m serving and off myself (which isn’t always easy).

these feelings inspire servitude and respect (for who i’m serving). it allows me to calm down, to be focused and to be of service. it puts me in my place in a wonderful way. it’s what i want.

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i need to be used

i need to be used.
i need to be of service.
i need to be put in my place,
again and again.
i need rules and discipline.
i need structure.
i need the raw slap of your hand
on my backside to keep me in line.
i need direction and guidance.
i need to please.
i need to feel useful, to be used,
to be fulfilled, to be filled.
anything less makes me less.
i am fulfilled by being treated
like the true slut i am.

DAY 23 – 30 days of submission

DAY 23: is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?

it’s not up to me to judge others. as long as it’s all consensual and of age, i think it’s great for people to have the freedom to do whatever they want.

as for my own submission, i currently don’t have any dislikes or anything that repels me. i’ve perhaps have had it easy for me to say this. i would like to be stretched more to where i did acquire some dislikes. i feel like this would help push my submissiveness. it’s easy to be submissive when it’s everything i like.

i have been resistant to my own submissive feelings in the past – like what’s this? is this “normal”? how can i realistically express this in my daily life? i’m still in the process of exploring all of this and would like to push myself even more to truly live in alignment with my submissive tendencies. i need to be pushed. i need more rules and stricter guidelines. this is what i crave.

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DAY 22 – 30 days of submission

DAY 22: can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? if so, how does your submission express itself? if not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings?

absolutely. my current partner isn’t super dominate (at least not as much as i desire) and i still feel more submissive than ever. when i’m fully being submissive (allowing him to take the lead, submitting to his wants and desires) i’m the happiest and most calm.

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DAY 20 – 30 days of submission

DAY 20:  has your submission increased or decreased over time? have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?

it has most definitely increased. i’ve always been/felt submissive but it’s only been recently (like the past year) where i’ve felt an even stronger desire to truly play it out – to express it. it has becoming a much bigger part of me and has (finally) leaked into my everyday life.

i haven’t had to renegotiate my submission and i don’t really see that being a factor. if anything, i feel like i’ll want to lean into it more, not less, so maybe that’s here the renegotiation will possibly come into play.

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DAY 19 – 30 days of submission

DAY 19: how socially connected is your submission? do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?

i love connecting with others about submission. i’m always learning and love reading/talking with others about their submission and how it works for them. besides this blog (where i’m already connecting with some cool submissives), i’m also on bdsmlr. i’ve yet to connect in person but i’m hoping to do that soon.

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